summer

one of my favorite at the very first time i saw this movie. gw nonton film ini dulu sama mantan gw awal-awal bgt kita pacaran. first gw cuma bs bilang "ga ngerti". tapi gw suka bgt sama 3 scene ini karena anjrit buseeet ni cewe "tai" bgt. setelah gw nonton film ini. oke done. gw cuma mikir yailah film doang terlalu dramatis buat kejadian di kehidupan nyata just another romance film.

but i like this movie like bener-bener suka sorry being too much but i've watched this movie hmm more than 10 times kali ya. dan still "bagus sih, tapi yadalah romance film"

sampai akhirnya "what always happens. life" benar-benar kejadian di hidup gw. and i'm like waw. that's real. Liburan kemarin gw sempet ngumpul sama temen sma gw "dude's" dan kita ngomong dan ngobrolin beberapa film-film. finally sampe juga "500 days of summer". beberapa omongan mereka yang masi bisa gw inget "nyet gw paling ga ngerti dah sama 500 days of summer" "wah anjing seru kali flashback-flashback gitu" "kaga-kaga nyet bingung gw yang gw tau si zooey nya cantikbgt tailah ga ada obat" "ceweknya disitu anjing bgt tai bgt". "gw bingung dah knp ujung-ujungnya summer mau nikah?"

so this is my opinion. cause somehow this movie has been my influence.. chilllax sesungguhnya masi banyak  banyak banyak film lain yang nge-influens gue... *cewekfilm

"Tom goes to the bench at his favorite part of the city. He’s gazing down at some of the buildings when Summer calls out to him. She compliments his looks and knows he’s angry.  She tells him that she’s happy to see he’s doing ok. Tom confesses that he now realizes that all his ideas about love were wrong. Summer points out that it wasn’t. The girl who didn’t want to be anyone’s girlfriend was now someone’s wife. She tells him that with her husband, she knew what she was never sure of with Tom: that she was in love with him and wanted to spend the rest of her life with him. And she tells Tom that if there’s no destiny, she might have easily never randomly met him in a coffee shop. She tells Tom he was right. Just not about her"


Tom blinded himself to the way Summer treated him and the lack of appreciation she had for him by focusing ONLY on the good times they shared and disregarding the poor way she treated him. In life, we are all guilty of the same attitude that Tom displayed. We meet someone that we think “fate” We build the person up in our minds to the point where we absolutely and undoubtedly know that we are made for each other! However, as many friends, family or outside sources can tell you, we have blinded ourselves from the real person. We don’t pay attention to the negative way this individual treats us, or the lack of interest this person takes in us. We ignore all their rudeness and mistreatment and assume that they are just having a bad day, but in fact we have built up someone in our mind who doesn’t appreciate us. We are, in a sense, chasing an illusion that we have created! I’m sure many people have been in relationships like this or had similar feelings about a particular individual. hahah cause i've been there It’s important to take a step back from the fairy tale you think you live in and get feedback from friends and family about the person that we put on a pedestal and treat like a prince/princess. It’s nearly impossible to make an accurate assessment of a person when such strong emotions are involved.
Summer mentioned how she could have been anywhere else in the world, but that coffeehouse. She could have arrived just a couple minutes later and she would have never met her fate, but it was because of “fate” that she ended up where she did when she did. We often find ourselves saying “man did I luck out” or lines of similar meaning. We see this in many areas of life, but none is quite as remarkable as finding yours . In order for two people to find each other there is an almost infinite amount of variables that must fall into place. The timing must work out, they must be in the same place, they must notice one another, they must somehow end up interacting with each other, the two people must be receptive to each others remarks, they must remain in touch, etc. The amount of timing and planning that must go on for two people to meet and ultimately get married leaves no doubt in my mind

Summer also mentioned that she got engaged and married so quickly because she woke up one morning and just “knew” what she never felt through the many months she was with Tom. I have personally heard numerous stories of how people ultimately find each other. People have met on a train, bus even on Facebook, school college, etc. But one thing is for sure, when you ultimately meet "fate"…you just know! You can be dating someone for several years and have a bitter break up and then begin dating someone else and within 2 months you can have a stronger bond with that person then with your previous boyfriend/girlfriend who you’ve been seeing for years

Conclusion: What was so powerful about 500 Days of Summer is how it accurately depicted ones’ quest for ones’ fate. Most movies have the same unrealistic/silly/obvious plot line: Guy meets girl, guy flirts with her, she turns him down, guy flirts some more, girl falls deeply in love with him, there are a few steamy smooching scenes, something threatens their relationship, they overcome this obstacle, they smooch some more, and BOOM… This is not reality, rather it’s silliness that we are taught to believe at a young age. No one falls in love that way! Most of us will meet quite a few people that we THINK are our fate. We build them up in our minds to be “The One” and the ONLY one we can ever love. Then we get our hearts broken. fukc

hahaha so much in my head, hosh-hosh. then for me. right now i just don't really feel like being in a relationship. and i dont have any phase any stage or anything. just let it flow not like that i'm traumatic. nope. that's wrong. 500 days of summer has explained. i just can't wait what life can surprised me. we're grown up. and i think i've grown up. :)